How to Build Self Confidence in Relationships

How to Build Self-Confidence in Relationships

It is so important to build self-confidence in relationships to have better relationships and to do so, you must know how. As I am moving through this life, meeting more and more people, from different backgrounds, with different belief systems, as I’m going through a process of intense meditation, I am beginning to realize how this world is operating and what the “right” mindset is to approach it. I want you, dear reader, and everyone else to hear these words. So, please go ahead and comment on this post. I want to hear your opinion! Also, I ask you to share this with as many people as you can. So, how did I come to this conclusion about how to build self-confidence in relationships?

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Before I used to go around and judge everything and everyone that came into my sight. I came from a background, where judging was a very common behavior. I judged people around me, I judged situations, I judged myself and my mistakes. Yes, mistakes happen (some bigger than others), and yes people create unexpected situations in our lives, and yes if blame everyone (including yourself) for your mistakes, you WILL be influenced by them and you WILL lose your confidence. This is called giving your power away. So how to build self-confidence and regain your power? And by assuming responsibility for our actions AND seeing every mistake as an opportunity to learn and everyone in our lives as a teacher (directly or indirectly) we are able to take our power back and live a happier life.

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So, what are some of the things I have learned? As I go further on my journey, I see how some ways of thinking can be damaging and other can be uplifting. I am realizing now that judgment is one of those damaging ways. If you judge it means that your insecurities are showing. Every person has his greatness. Every person also has his or her dark side. If we keep judging the dark side, we are indirectly disowning our own dark side and giving away our power. This way we lose confidence and it will take us more effort to learn again how to build self-confidence.

It seems like a paradox: if we stop judging, we might encounter people that will hurt us, but if we keep judging we will never find happiness. However, this seeming paradox is not correct. In fact, stopping judgments does not mean becoming more vulnerable to other people hurting us. Stopping judgments means accepting the world for how it is and knowing whom to let into your life and whom not. This is a very confident thing to do. Here, self-respect and knowing your boundaries come into play. The latter is closely related to awareness. When we respect ourselves and know our boundaries, we can relax and go with the flow of life, without being a control freak. The interesting thing about this is that in this case most potentially “dangerous” situations that can hurt us will DISAPPEAR out of our lives. For example, people who see that we are confident won’t try to breach our boundaries. And even if we encounter such a situation, we’ll learn from it, rather than assume a victim mentality.

With this, I keep coming back to a very powerful model of how to build self-confidence in relationships that I have learned from Johnny Soporno, who is one of the most experienced relationship experts I know (not just with women but in general too). He calls it expectation management. It consists of three stages.

1. Expect to earn Self-Confidence in Relationships Yourself, By Exhibiting What  You’re Capable Of

This means that here we have to know what we are capable of doing. It is very important here to respect yourself in this case and know your boundaries. When you respect your boundaries, you will not end up in situations where you are overwhelmed and have to struggle to get out from. Having said that, it is always good to be aware of the possibilities to EXPAND your comfort zone, so doing baby steps outside of the expectations is not only ok but necessary for a successful personal development. Also, there are tools out there that help us expand our comfort zone faster and create new expectations for ourselves. You can read about that in my guide or try a coaching session with me.

2. Don’t allow others to expect more from you than you are capable of right now for self-confidence in relationships.

This part is not always easy. Especially here it is crucial to know your boundaries and respect them AND make clear to other people what they are and that they are not to be violated (in a respectful way of course). Again, this way you will not put yourself in situations that you can not handle and will struggle to get out of. Of course, without knowing or respecting your own boundaries it will be hard to follow this aspect of expectation management. I can give you an example from my own life. Last year, I started a business project with my father. I was still fully immersed in exploring the land of women and unconsciously did not want to go astray from that.

However, I had a business mentor, who was pushing me very hard to achieve something that I did not want, nor was ready for at that time. At that time I wasn’t very aware of my boundaries in this case. I thought that I should follow what other people tell me because they have more experience and I don’t (which is a wrong way of thinking, everyone has his own intuition about things). I violated the first and the second stages of expectation management. So, I ended up creating a very difficult situation for myself. I had to pull myself out of the project, without having to create a big family drama and respecting everyone’s needs. Why? Because I was not ready for this project. I didn’t manage my expectations properly and had to invest a lot of energy into saving the situation. At the end, I managed quite well to get everything to its normal state. However, this costs me a tremendous amount of energy AND most importantly confidence. I ended up in an emotional slump that took me a while to get out of. Now I see this as a great learning experience. Want to learn about this part? Get a coaching session with me:

3. Don’t expect from others what they are not capable of for self-confidence in relationships.

This is the latter stage but in reverse. When we deal with people, we have to be aware who they are and what they are capable of. It is then important not to expect from them, what is out of their capability. If we know that someone is never on time, we should not expect him or her to be on time next time we want to meet him/her. Also, if we expect someone to have a certain characteristic, we should not be surprised when it appears next time. Of course, people change, but we should only change our expectations if we have seen enough evidence about the newly changed characteristic of that person (although this one is subtle, please comment on this one with your opinions).

Once we master the above model of how to build confidence in relationships. We can abolish judgment and just relax and follow the flow of life. Because we know exactly what to expect from ourselves and from others at any time (in a perfect scenario). The further we explore this model, the easier it becomes. We can also meet and interact with many more people and have greater relationships with women. Always remember self-confidence in relationships starts at home with Dad.

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Self Confidence at Work – Things You Can Do

Self-Confidence at Work – Things You Can Do

Building self-confidence at work. sometimes isn’t as easy as it sounds. especially when you have more than one or two co-workers or superiors who don’t care about you at all. Or worse yet would like to see you fail at everything you do.

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Having problems with coworkers is never fun and it can take a toll on everybody involved. Having problems with superiors is even worse as it can lead to feelings of inferiority or worse yet total incompetence.A lot of these problems stem from a lack of self-confidence at work. Even if your self-confidence wasn’t affected by the fact, it probably was after the fact and you could be dealing with a massive loss of self-confidence at work.

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In times like these,  it’s definitely worth building more self-confidence at work. Self-confidence helps you to project an attitude of knowledge and skill that makes others trust in your abilities to complete a job successfully. The way to build this self-confidence at work is through action, positive action, action without complaint, self-initiated action. This is important, this shows that you have the self-confidence at work in your own abilities to do what’s necessary.

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” Confidence Is The Key!”
I’ve researched and studied success for 25 years. I’ve finally found there are no “secrets of success.” No one is born with special qualities that assure long-term success and prosperity. There are, however, “special people” with goals, plans and the ability to move confidently in the direction of their dreams.
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Having a deep belief in your ability to achieve your goals–that’s the most important thing! The wonderful news about self-confidence: it is an attitude you can learn.
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Unfortunately, many people are not fully sure about their abilities concerning their job. Here’s a secret, people who often think they’re self-confident at work, in all reality aren’t either! The difference is that they pretend that they can do something, even if they are not sure how it’s done when they start out, thinking that 9 times out of 10 they will figure things out along the way. To often this is known a sign of arrogance, which is the perception of self-confidence.

If you’re looking for increased self-confidence at work in your performance at work or in dealing with coworkers and handling tough situations, you’re not alone. So what can you do to feel more self-assured in your job?

Don’t dwell on your errors for true self-confidence at work.

Everyone makes mistakes. You don’t have a “corner on the market” of mistakes. So if you make a mistake at work, this does not mean that you’re worthless, you don’t know your job, or that you’re in the wrong job. It just means that you made a mistake. Even with all the knowledge, you can possess your position, mistakes can still easily be made. The worst thing you can do is to worry about your mistake(s) if you’re really interested in building your self-confidence at work. Worry is nothing more than fear and fear and confidence don’t cohabitate in the same person at the same time. they don’t work together. It’s this facing of fear that builds self-confidence. It’s this overcoming doubts and failures that build self-confidence at work. Edison never considered failures as failures, he considered them little wins, showing which way not to go.

Did you know that Thomas Edison, who is credited with inventing the light bulb had to try 10,000 different filaments before he found the one that worked? When asked how he kept going after making 10,000 mistakes, he replied, I didn’t make 10,000 mistakes. I simply found 10,000 ways that wouldn’t work, knowing all the time that if he kept trying, he’d find the one that would work. If you make a mistake, treat it like Thomas Edison did, and think that you just found a way that your solution wouldn’t work. The right solution is still waiting for you to discover.

Act honestly and straightforwardly. Accept responsibility for your mistake, correct it if possible and put it in the past. Then continue on, don’t make the same mistake again and don’t worry about it. Worrying will do nothing but hold you back from your true potential. Worrying leads only to a greater loss of self-confidence at work. Worry is nothing more than fear, and fear doesn’t coincide with self-confidence at work.

If you need help, ask for it. You’ll be pleasantly surprised how willing most people are to help. Working with other people and accepting their help will build better working relationships and you’ll feel better about yourself. This, in turn, will also create the best outcome for the company, which again will help you feel better.

Working  With Co-workers

Another common self-confidence at work issue is feeling insecure when it comes to dealing with co-workers. Many people feel that they don’t fit in, are unsure how to handle conflict, or have an overbearing co-worker or boss that they don’t know how to communicate with. Any of these feelings can wear at your self-esteem.

If dealing with co-workers is difficult for you, it might require that you step out of your comfort zone a bit. Just enough to open up conversations with one or two co-workers at social gatherings. This is where fear and confidence can’t coexist. To achieve the confidence, you must face the fear. Chances are you’ll find you have something in common to talk about. Asking questions about the other person is always a great way to open the dialogue. Ask “open” questions that invite the other person give you lengthy answers. These questions often begin with a phrase like “What do you think about… ” or “How did you…” instead of questions that invite simple yes or no answers. I always like learning how other people do things better than I do (even when they don’t).

Look for common points of interest that you can agree on. Commonality is a great way to break the ice and get to know people. The more you converse with them, the more in common you discover you have. This, in turn, gives you more to talk about which will raise the level of your relationship. Building self-confidence at work means that you must build your self-confidence in inter-personal relationships first. For more information in this area visit, How To Build Self Confidence In Relationships

Resolving Disagreements

It’s never pleasant having to deal with conflict and with difficult people, but communication skills certainly make the task easier. There are proven communication techniques you can learn to help with this. If you are in a supervisory or managerial position, it is worthwhile attending a course specifically on conflict resolution and dealing with difficult people.

Always keep an open mind and never assume that the person you’re talking with doesn’t know what they’re talking about. Respect the ideas the viewpoints of others at all times. You never know what you can learn from them and since increased knowledge brings increased confidence, always be willing to learn more.

In general, remember that an overbearing people generally have a lot of insecurities and hide behind their overbearing exterior. In the midst of conflict, do your best to avoid arguments. Don’t reward other people’s behavior by getting upset or immediately backing down. If necessary, say you’ll continue the conversation when everyone has had a chance to cool down. Dealing with negative co-workers is always a challenge. Try and remember that your self-esteem does not depend on any of your co-worker’s approval, even if that person is your boss.

Back to School

Knowing too much as never been a handicap. Learning is a lifelong process. If ever you’re in doubt, the solution is probably to learn more. If you’re feeling unsure about your skills, it’s time to go back to school. As mentioned above self-confidence grows as your knowledge grows. Hence it goes without saying that the more you know, the greater your self-confidence at work.

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Continuing education programs are something that’s offered by a lot of companies these days and they’ll gladly pay for you to go back to school, or offer in-house development courses for their employees because they know it makes them more valuable and productive.

Whenever education and training are offered by your employer, be sure to take advantage of it as knowledge always builds self-confidence at work. If your company does not offer training, educate yourself. Ask any of your colleagues for suggestions, or if you’re a member of any type of professional group, seek advice from them as well. Many of them will have good suggestions or recommendations on what’s worth looking into.

Welcome Challenges

Don’t ever be afraid of new challenges. One of the greatest ways to build your self-confidence at work is by taking on a special project. Especially if you are able to choose something you feel passionate about or something that’s in your area of expertise. By doing so you will be able to demonstrate to your colleagues how well you can produce results.

When you take on a new challenge it demonstrates how much confidence you really have in yourself. What better confidence booster, could you ask for than to know that you put yourself out there and didn’t sit on the sidelines?

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Tips to Gain More Self Confidence With Women

Gain More Self-Confidence With Women

If you’re one of those who’s always shy and an introverted when you’re around females, chances are, you’re looking for ways to build your self-confidence with women. The most common problem which guys have around women is that they believe they’re simply not good enough for that woman. And that is more than likely, the root cause of their rejection.   This is because when you’re worried you’re not good enough, you end up projecting a poor self-image which will tell most any woman that you’re not that great of a prospect for a mate. Women are more tuned into the image a man projects with his actions and emotions. Who would go for a guy who doesn’t think much of himself?

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It wouldn’t be a bad idea to have an inflated ego but most women hate arrogant, narcissistic men, so you need to project the image that you’re comfortable in your own skin! Here are 5 tips for you to gain self-confidence with women! Armed with these, it would be really hard to go wrong!

Ground Rules For More Self-Confidence With Women

Relax – When you are around girls or the girl of your dreams, you need to learn to relax. Easier said than done I know, but you can try to concentrate on your posture and try relaxing your tense muscles. The last thing you want to do is to think about what you can’t do. Instead, think about what you can do.

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When thinking about what you can’t do, you’re letting fear enter into the equation, which is the last thing you want to happen. Fear is the opposite of confidence. It’s its enemy. The two can’t co-exist. So keep in mind what you’re good at doing, whether it’s playing a video game, sports, or even doing homework, think of your feelings when you’re doing that particular thing and transfer that confidence to your approach with women.

Smile – When you’re approaching her, smile and have no preconceptions of her reactions. Don’t expect that she’s going to say yes to you and more importantly, don’t expect that she is going to refuse you! Your only goal at this point is to learn more about her. A smile is a sign of confidence. It’s the first that a woman sees and it speaks volumes about the confidence you bring with you.

Build More Self-Confidence With Women

If you’re serious about gaining more self-confidence with women and not just around women, you should try taking interest in a special woman to increase your knowledge and understanding of her. This will build up your relationship with her. Nothing works better than this. This helps you stay in a positive frame of mind and that reflects a confident attitude when you’re talking to women.

Try taking Yoga. Yoga is especially nice when you take a class because one of the best places to meet women is in a yoga class. Usually, around 85%-90% of the class are women which make it a great place to practice building your self-confidence with women.

Stay Positive – Whenever you’re around women, instead of thinking negatively (about all your bad qualities), think positively of all your good qualities, your strengths so to speak. This will make you feel more comfortable and at ease and it is a well-known fact that women like easy-going guys!

Beware of this through as you don’t want to boast about your good qualities, as that’s a sign of arrogance and most women are turned off by arrogance. Quiet confidence in your good qualities is a much better sign of your inner strengths.

No Doubts – Last but not least, don’t let self-doubts enter your mind when you are about to approach her. Don’t spend hours debating on whether you should or you shouldn’t. JUST DO IT. And do it before all those negative thoughts come rushing into your head! Negativity is the enemy of confidence because it brings on fear. Remember, fear and confidence can’t co-exist. The first step is often the hardest to take, but after you do, it becomes easier with every step thereafter.

Gaining more self-confidence with women is not that hard, you just need to stay calm and most importantly, enjoy her company. Instead of deprecating yourself all the time, try appreciating yourself. You’ll be amazed at the results!

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Find Out How Yours Affects You, Too

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Build Confidence in Public Speaking

Confidence in Public Speaking

Do you hate public speaking? Do you need more confidence in public speaking? You can’t sleep the night before, you get jittery, your stomach acts up and you generally feel miserable when you have to speak in public. If you’re a shy and introverted person, that makes things worse. Knowing that you keep thinking everyone’s going to think you’re such a boring speaker.

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That’s how I used to feel too. I still get nervous (that’s normal for everyone I’ve found) but now I can handle it better AND give a decent performance when I have to speak in public or give a presentation.

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Here’s what I’ve learned, maybe these tips will help you have confidence in public speaking  too:

1. Be aware of your breathing. When you get nervous, your breathing tends to become shallow and quick. Slow down your breathing and breathe deeply from your stomach.

Here’s how: breathe deeply by inflating your stomach as you breathe in (not inflating your chest). Then deflate your stomach (pretend it’s a balloon and you’re pushing all the air out) as your exhale. Do this slowly.

2. Unclench your teeth and jaw. Similar to the shallow breathing, when you get nervous, you tend to clench your teeth and your jaw. Be aware of that and relax your jaw and unclench your teeth.

3. Practice, practice, practice. I feel more comfortable and confident about what I’m going to say when I’ve practiced the speech over and over again so that I don’t get overwhelmed on stage.

4. Don’t read to your audience – speak to them. In school, I used to write the entire speech or presentation out word for word and then I would stand up on stage and read it out word for word.

That’s extremely boring (for your audience and you). Now, I use keywords or Q-cards to remind me of the bigger topic that I need to talk about.

This makes sure that I’m looking at my audience and I use my own words and it makes it like I’m having a conversation with them which makes for a far better and memorable presentation.

5. Involve the audience. Sitting in a room full of hundreds of people listening to one person talk is boring. That’s for university and college. If you want to be memorable and deliver a good presentation, involve the audience. Ask questions. Ask for opinions. Ask for sharing.

Hopefully, these tips will help you deal better with your nerves when it comes to public speaking and help you deliver a more memorable presentation. To be sure though, start where the best speakers start.

 

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Guide to Gaining Self-Confidence at Work

Your
Guide to Gaining Self-Confidence at Work

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To gain self-confidence at work is one of the most important pursuits one can attempt. People who are confident in themselves can expect to be given increased responsibility, authority, and leadership opportunities. And because increased responsibility brings increased earnings, it ultimately brings more success.

But self-confidence needs to be distinguished from arrogance, which does not attract people or success. When you are confident, you believe in your own abilities but you do not need to look down at or mistreat others. In fact, the greater your self-confidence, the more you will act in a selfless, generous and engaging manner.

Arrogance, on the other hand, is defined as “an attitude of superiority manifested in an overbearing manner or in presumptuous claims or assumptions“. Arrogance is quite often used in place of self-confidence at work when true self-confidence at work is lacking.

Building self-confidence at work does not have to be that difficult if one knows how to go about it. Here are a few tips to help you develop your self-confidence at work.

 

Education is Key for self-confidence at work

What you know about your duties and position is key to how well you can perform those duties and directly affects how much self-confidence you’ll ultimately have. Education concerning your job along with the performance of your duties lends credence to your competence in your job.

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The more competent you are at work, the more self-confident at work you will feel.  If a company pays for you to take a course, do it. Doing so will allow you to gain self-confidence in your position by increasing your knowledge of your duties. In the 21st century, you cannot afford to not improve your abilities if the opportunity presents itself. Especially in hard economic times, opportunities for more education may not be as readily available as you would like.

Education is key when you want to gain self-confidence at work. So you need to take control of your education.  Set aside some time aside each day to read more to develop your skills. Make it a habit. It might be reading trade publications. It might be reading a book related to your field. The best time to do is first thing in the morning or right before bedtime.

And another thing that really helps is to find another person or a group who share your desire for improvement. You can motivate each other, discuss what you have learned and share ideas with each other to understand better all the nuisances of your duties. To gain self-confidence at work, you just need to improve a little bit each day, and pretty soon, you will notice a huge difference.

Your capabilities will define the confidence you feel. The greater your capabilities, the greater your self-confidence. As you increase your self-confidence, you will feel more compelled to improve yourself and ultimately the more you’ll gain self-confidence at work.

Affirm To Gain Self Confidence at Work

Self-confidence is ultimately based on knowledge. The greater the knowledge of your position, the greater your self-confidence in that position. On the other hand, not knowing what you should know to carry out your duties, will tend to hold back, not allowing you to perform your duties and generally set yourself up for underachievement. Nobody will see your value

A good way around this dilemma is to use positive affirmations to ground your thoughts and intentions to gain self-confidence at work by programming your mind positively. Affirmations like “I like to learn as much as I can about my work so I can achieve the best possible results for my company to increase my value” is an example of a good affirmation that you can say to yourself every morning and night. This will set you up to gain more self-confidence at work without a conscious effort.

The affirmations must be positive, encouraging and action-oriented to change your behavior for the best. You should sit down and write out several positive affirmations on how you see yourself as an ideal employee or affirmations of what you want to achieve in your work or even in life. Here are some affirmations to get you started:

  • I always seek to know as much as I can for all positions I may need to hold.
  • I get along with everyone I work with to create a harmonious environment.
  • I accept criticism with enthusiasm so I can always keep improving the work I do.
  • Realizing that self-confidence comes through knowledge followed by actions, my actions always show that my knowledge is unsurpassed in my field.
  • I am understanding when mistakes are made, whether by me or a co-worker and always seek to learn from those mistakes, without placing blame or responsibility on anyone.

These are just a few affirmations to get you started on your list of affirmations. A good idea is to write each one on a  separate index card and carry them in your pocket to read to yourself when you have time do so. I always read between 10 and 20 affirmations every day to subconsciously change my behavior and gain self-confidence at work for myself.

Attitude Is Everything for self-confidence at work

How you think about yourself is the going to tell others how they should think about you. This doesn’t mean that you should be arrogant and boastful. True self-confidence doesn’t have to boast. Quite often, silence is its best partner. Most boastful people hide behind their boastful attitude because of their lack of confidence. They know that they can’t back up their words with action so they have to bluff their show they know what they’re doing.

A person who’s truly self-confident in his actions already knows everything he’s talking about so there’s no need to brag about it. Those who shut their mouths and listen, always learn more than those who keep talking, for it’s impossible to listen while you’re talking. Everyone I know has heard this phrase in many different ways, “God gave you two ears and one mouth, use them accordingly”, meaning you should listen twice as much as you talk.

Everyone who needs to gain self-confidence at work needs to heed this advice on how can you expect to learn anything without listening. Remember it’s knowledge that allows you to gain self-confidence at work and the more you know about what’s going on around you the more confidence you can have in your situation.

Putting It All Together

After you gain self-confident at work, you will be able to enjoy work, even more, perform better and ultimately be more successful. Take steps now to focus on how you can gain self-confidence at work, change your thoughts with positive affirmations and invest time to learn more by educating yourself so you can get better at what you do.

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How to Improve Self Confidence At Work

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The “You Are A Giant Self Improvement Action Guide” contains everything you will need to: build your self-esteem and change the way you see yourself develop your self-confidence and get rid of worries overcome your fears improve your relationships learn to stand up for yourself, and get other people to like and respect you attract people’s attention know what to ignore and what to really focus on All of these changes will finally bring you joy, contentment, and peace.

The ability to improve self-confidence at work can be a fragile thing, even in the best of times. It’s often something that’s not easily achieved and when this happens it can take time to get started. A lot of people try to improve their self-confidence at work but encounter only setbacks. Here are five easy ways on how to improve self-confidence at work.

1. Silence your inner critic

We all have an inner critic. For some people. it’s a mere whisper that is barely heard. For others, it’s a constant din. If you suffer from a nagging voice that’s always putting you down then it’s time to do something about it. Start by realizing that it’s you creating the inner critic. So if you’re creating that voice in your head, you can get rid of it. No matter how improbable that seems at first. Chances are that it’s talking to you in a tone of voice that would raise your heckles if anyone spoke to you that way in real life. I know you’ve heard it said that your worst critic is you. Well, guess what? It’s true. Your self-criticism is what’s holding you back more than anything else. If that criticism comes from a co-employee, acknowledge it, validate it, and work to improve it. If it’s coming from you, take inventory of what you do right and what you’re doing wrong. Work to change what you’re doing wrong so you can eliminate that criticism. How do you know right from wrong? Read on…

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2.  Educate Yourself

If you’re going to improve self-confidence at work, education is the essential, especially at work. Knowing how your department works, how everything works together and how to fix whatever breaks down is key to self-confidence at work. Educate yourself on what different departments do and for what they are responsible. In doing this you not only set yourself up to understand your company’s inner workings, you also make yourself invaluable as a “go-to” employee. Whenever there’s a problem, it’s you everybody looks to, to solve it. This means not only educating you in your company’s inner workings, you have to educate yourself as to how each job in each department works with the other jobs in that department. You need to understand what makes each department “tick” so you can repair whatever breaks down. If you know how to repair the breakdowns, your self-confidence at work can do nothing but increase.

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3.  Develop a “can do” attitude

This is actually fairly easy to do at work. If you’re going to improve self-confidence at work for yourself, a positive attitude is always the best way to get there. Attitude is everything. So you don’t spend your time worrying and spend your time doing and finding ways to get the job done. Stop saying “I can’t” and replace that with “I can”.  Then, obviously, you’ll be more able to deliver on what you’ve promised. Because if you followed through on the last step, deep down you know you’re perfectly capable.

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4. Don’t be afraid to ask for help

School teaches us that we’re on our own – it’s up to us to pass all the exams, etc. But at work, there’s a good chance that there are other people you can call on to help you. Not all the time. And not for the simpler things in your job. But if you get stuck, don’t be afraid to ask someone else to help you out. And don’t be afraid to offer help to them in their hour of need. We all get times when we’re stuck and a second mind makes all the difference. A fresh pair of eyes is often all that’s needed to get you back on track and producing work that you – and your boss – will be proud of.

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5. Don’t let your self-confidence turn into arrogance

Arrogance is false self-confidence and is displayed by those who really don’t have much self-confidence. They use arrogance to cover up their own inadequacies. Arrogance has a tendency to use verbal intimidation to get across their point, more than anything else. If you want to prove yourself, your actions will always speak louder than your words. Your “can-do” attitude will always get you farther in the workplace than arrogance. So always keep in mind that arrogance is not self-confidence. It’s actually a sign of a lack of self-confidence. Keeping in mind these five simple things will help to improve your self-confidence at work.   For more education and information see the following:

 

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How You Can Build Self Confidence At Work

How You Can Build Self Confidence At Work

How you can build self-confidence at work can be answered by seeking to learn more about your position to know the most you possibly can about it. Knowledge brings along with it the self-confidence necessary to achieve the highest levels of success that one can achieve.

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Self-confidence is vital to not just our personal and professional relationships, but for public relationships, sports affiliations and financial success as well. One needs to project a persona of confidence with your boss, employees or co-workers. It doesn’t matter what your job is – you must trust in your capabilities.

The main benefits, if you build self-confidence at work, are that you will project a strong image of a person who can be trusted. If other people that work with you feel that you have low self-esteem, that you are unmotivated and you don’t trust yourself, they will not follow you on any decisions or projects that you want to make. However, if you have confidence, you will feel it and they will see it.

So how can you build self-confidence at work?

You can start by determining where you are having problems. Do you feel intimidated by any of your co-workers or boss? Do you garner respect from any of those whom you supervise? Do you lack confidence in any of your abilities, like are you afraid of making mistakes or do you feel less significant in front of your other co-workers?

Look inward to see where you can improve yourself in manners of your knowledge, habits, and attitude. With attitude being the most important of these qualities, is your attitude what it needs to be to achieve the success you wish? Your attitude controls everything else, including your habits and your knowledge.

Without an attitude that you want to increase your knowledge concerning your area of work, you cannot attain the expertise required to build the self-confidence necessary to achieve the success you desire. If the desire to build self-confidence at work is your desire then you must also possess the desire to increase your knowledge and create habits to achieve the self-confidence you need for the success you desire.

You should educate yourself. Learn all that you can about your job, your department and your company. Learn all the inner workings of your job, department, and company and prepare yourself to handle any problems and resolve any differences between co-workers. The more you know about what you’re doing the more self-confidence at work you’ll have.

You should not be afraid of taking risks, sometimes you will need to do something that requires a little more than you are comfortable with, do it. The more challenging your work is the better because you will develop new skills and learn things that will possibly put you in a position to earn more or develop new relationships that can benefit you.

Focus on your strengths, don’t try too hard on things that you know you are not good at. If you know that you can do certain tasks much better than others, then do those and tell your boos what are your strengths so he can let you focus on those, you will achieve more and in less time.

Set goals and commit to success, always try to improve your self, have clear goals that you know you can achieve in a certain period of time. Even if your goals are small that is good, because it will improve your self-confidence at work and you will keep going for more.

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